I knew the stab wasn't at me, Compostella. With the author's name being 'manxbiker' it was obvious whom the stab was at, c�mon. I just wanted to defend the poor auld races, even though I know people are using them to get a rise out of the author of this question. I was taking a corner on the races� behalf, sort of.
I still love Christmas though, and still think you're as miserable as my ex, but stick to it if you must manxie!
Do you get bought pressies by people who think you must be joking or will change your mind, and what do you do if so? My ex used to get bought stuff by his best friends, it annoyed and embarrassed him but as a statement he obviously was not going to start buying Christmas pressies in return the year after or anything. He used to make sure he bought good birthday pressies for them all. Interestingly, they used to give their pressies to him the day before, not weeks before just in case he�d change his mind and buy them something. When I asked them why they did that, they said it was because they didn�t want him to think they expected him to find the time to suddenly buy them something in return (as if he would, in their words).
When you said that the rest of your family genuinely did not celebrate Christmas, is that totally true? It�s just that his mum used to celebrate it by buying her friends and whatnot pressies, just not him. And then play everything down. Hence the murder when I bought the box of chocs for her that time!