I quite like the bottom right. But different cuts suit different people so I do not know what might suit you best. But on a first date I would always go very conservative.
If you are doing mini golf, you will probably be bending over. Go with the high neck bottom right so as not to flash off too much cleavage. Be a lady, be classy.
I think what Hazlinny was suggesting (apologies if I am wrong) is that you seem to lack confidence and self-esteem, needing approval from others for what you wear and what to do.
Abbey, I'm glad you feel the advice from ABers is useful. There's a part of me feels that your own friends would make better judges - they'll surely know what things suit you best(they must have seen you in 100s of outfits), what things you can carry off and so on?