Which One For Meal Tonight?

[abbeylee90]

https://postimg.cc/Lg8ZhQZJ/9ea9b5eb

[pastafreak]

If you don't feel like going out at the last minute, maybe you shouldn't have agreed to the date in the first place.

How would you feel if you were preparing to go out...maybe had nails done specially, or had a long bus ride? Bet you'd be p***** off.

[abbeylee90]

I told him I'm tired. My friends said that guy I went on a date with before probably said he going travelling to put me off 

[abbeylee90]

He hadn't left 

[Prudie]

Your friends are probably right, just like you don't want to see this guy tonight. Don't take it so personally, most online daters are only after one thing (yes they are...). Move on.

[Hazlinny]

Abbey, are there no rugby social clubs where you are (Wales being a rugby orientated country) - why not have a night out there with your friends and probably meet up with some hunky rugby player?  Just a thought x

[Redhelen72]

Your friends are right you should ask them for advice more often 

[lankeela]

So now you have told him you are tired what will you say if he asks you out again when you are not tired?  That is what I meant when I said tell him the truth - that you don't want to go out with him.  No lies, no excuses.  

[abbeylee90]

I might do just don't want to go out tonight 

[lankeela]

Are you saying you might go out with him if he asks again?

[abbeylee90]

Ptob

[abbeylee90]

Probably not 

[lankeela]

So please don't keep him hanging on.  Let him know you are not interested so he can move on and find someone who is.  

[abbeylee90]

He said he had been getting ready to leave house earlier 

[lankeela]

Poor bloke.  How would you feel if you were let down like that?

[abbeylee90]

I feel bad but that was first thing 

[newmodarmy]

I'm not sure why the topic reverted back to your dithering over your Saturday date given that you had a thread already on that topic.

Getting back to Friday's meal, which outfit did you select in the end? (Apologies if it's buried among the other  topics in the thread and I missed it.)

[abbeylee90]

I wore the black and orange leopard print blouse 

[newmodarmy]

Thanks for the update. Did you get any compliments on your choice ?

[newmodarmy]

I hope you removed that price tag!