Would A Photo Like This Be Cringy?

[abbeylee90]

I been browsing o  pof and the bearded guy Ive mentioned there is a pic of him holding a wod of cash. Do I keep to binning him off?

[Clementino]

 Abbey, are there any single young guys that have caught your eye at work, in the canteen maybe, or any that you have had friendly banter with who might possibly be interested  to meet up outside of  work for a coffee or a pizza or ........?

 

[Old_Geezer]

I'm confused. What were you calling this bearded guy you've been browsing ?

[Dizmo]

OG: "I've been browsing on Plenty of Fish and the bearded guy I've mentioned before, on here, has a picture of him holding a big wod of cash. Do I continue ignoring him, or not?" - that's how I deciphered it.

[Old_Geezer]

Oh, not o pof then. Ok. Thanks.

[Old_Geezer]

Always thought that "plenty offish" was an unusual choice of name for a dating service.

[cashier]

How much is a wad, how thick was it? 

[abbeylee90]

No idea but £10 notes

[jourdain2]

Abbey, you come over as very mercenary and shallow. Neither is good. IF you meet the right partner you will know. There is an old pop song called 'It's in his kiss'.  Believe me, that will tell you.

As for this man posing with a wad of loot - it just tells me that he fancies himself and that people can be bought.  Another reason to steer very well clear. If that's what 'binning him off' means. Get on with your life - that's what will eventually help you to meet someone with whom (read carefully because it is important) you don't have to pretend. If you meet someone like that, then that's theone for you.

However - you have finally got a full time job - concentrate on that. This puts you one up.  Have you paid off your debt to your mum? That would be two up. You may have noticed that I have almost stopped responding..... this is because you don't listen.

[abbeylee90]

Thank you jourdian, yes I haven't replied to him and will probably loose contact with other guy eventually bit thank you hopefully will meet the one soon as I'm not getting any younger. I'm doing gradually.

[abbeylee90]

I don't have any luck with guys.

[barry1010]

Abbey, why are you so desperate to have a boyfriend?  What difference do you think he will make to your life?  

You have good friends, a good social life, a loving family, your voluntary work at the dogs' home and a full time job.  Is that you plan to have children?

[abbeylee90]

Eventually yes and don't want to be single forever or live at home also don't want to be like man from home who said was never right tome to be married there's never a wrong time if they're right for you.

[barry1010]

You can leave home without being married, Abbey.  Don't look for a man to put a roof over your head and these days single women can choose to have children.

No man is going to solve your problems, you have to make your own decisions, look after yourself and be independent. Finding a life partner is a bonus, not a solution 

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, am I  reading your post correctly - the bearded guy DIDN'T send the pic to you, he just had it on his POF page? If you're not at all interested in him, as you said weeks ago, why are you looking him up?

[abbeylee90]

It's on pof as I been sliding across.

The one I liked who don't make effort just messaged and said nice hair in pic I was about to post a message to say might be best we don't speak no more coz of his lack of effort 

[bednobs]

it seems a bit odd to speak to someone to tell them you are no longer wanting to speak to them.

i'd like a man with a wodge of cash please - do you think hed be interested in a cougar?

[barry1010]

According to the DM today 20 year old men are desperate for the older woman, bednobs.

[bednobs]

ha! marvellous, i can teach him everything i know

[naomi24]

Abbey, you don't have to stop talking to any of them.  You can just be friendly.  You shouldn't expect the big love job with everyone who comes into contact with you.  Unless any of them really upsets you just chat with them all.

[pastafreak]

Abbey, if you continue to chat with them you'll get to know them better and your feelings might change. You sometimes sound like you expect love at first sight. That almost never happens. Even attraction develops over time.