No go for a soft pale tan with a bit of brogue detail , lace up with a gentle pointed toe. Noy too heavy a sole, possibly with a two tone effect or even the antiqued look.
Hello wardy, sorry but I am not gay but I do have an opinion so here goes, I would choose something like these ones, always look the biz, good luck and enjoy the "Do"
Dotty, as you know I am no Prof. Winstone, but class myself fairly intelligent. In all my life I have never considered wether a sole is too heavy or not.