Family

[nanunanu]

My dad left me when i was just 4 or 5 and although he hasnt totally disappeared from my life, he might aswell not exist. The thing is I am more like his brothers. His brothers are more normal whereas he is a jack the lad full of himself gods gift to women.

The thing is he treats women like dirt and gets away with it whereas my dads brothers (who i am like) have been cheated on and divorced and treated pretty poorly. I was just wonderin wether it is better to be a bit of an asshol or if i stay how i am will i end up getting cheated on and made to look a fool?????

[littlemissx]

have you completely got rid of your girlfriend yet????

[nanunanu]

no i havent

[nanunanu]

littlemiss do i sound likle a sad act to you? will i b doomed to cheaters all my life if i am the same as my uncles?

[littlemissx]

no you dont sound like a sad act but you do need to stand up to your girlfriend.... at the moment she is walking all over you!!!!

once you get rid, get out there and meet some of the nicer female's that live here!!!

[ineedahobby]

you'll be treated as you allow yourself to be nanu

[nanunanu]

i stand up to her a lot but then she will talk over me or say that men are all dogs and im no different. i think she is insecure about me going out and finding someone else.

for all my faults i am reasonably good looking and she is beautiful

[littlemissx]

looks should mean nothing once you get to know what a b!tch she is!!!

[nanunanu]

she isnt as bad as i made out....




ne way lets get back to the question, do lads who treat girls well get cheated on if they keep their head in the sand? do people like my dad always have power with women????

[littlemissx]

no nice guys dont all get cheated on... i would never cheat on any guy!!!

[netibiza]

You sound like a caring, gentle chap so don't worry - maybe find a nicer girlfriend.