Who wants to be average? It's whatever suits you both. If one or both aren't satisfied, then there's a problem and you need to sort it. If you are, there isn't. Comparing yourselves to other people won't give you any help.
If you wonder in the sense r u getting enough, I wonder too. Average if I'm lucky twice a week. We been together ages and are often shattered after work etc... I would like more but realistically I'm normally fast asleep as soon as my wee head hits the pillow.
well after 15 years and a one year old son...once a week. We show affection in lots of other ways and never go to sleep without a big spoons cuddle. So, approx once a week suits us both fine.
I would settle for 2 or 3 times a week - however I get it a lot less than this so if you are going thru "am i getting enough?" you have my sincere sympathy!
Oh jills, what a brilliant answer, and a wonderful sense of humour.
Cpallet, there is no such thing as average. What I think is 'never mind the quantity, go for quality instead'. It's much more satisfying!!