ladies

[bobtheduck]

why are some of you attracted to blokes who are a bit nasty?

[archbishop]

That's women for you. For some reason us nice men are not attractive to the opposite sex. 

[Kay]

I've never ever been attracted to this type of bloke! I always preffered the gentle romantic types,chocs,flowers,opens doors for ladies but had to be sexy as well:---)

[mrs.pudding]

probably because we think that we can change them! 

[KittyGlitter]

Because they are more likely to sleep around, which means they are highly sexed, which means they are more fertile, which means they are more likely to fertilise our eggs and we keep the population going. Everything boils down to biology ;-)

[flirty41]

I'm with FINA on this one.  Can't stand mean, arrogant men.

[smudge]

Fina, you've described my husband to a T!

[sweetheart]

The minority of us might be attracted to such a species, but not me!!

[Jules001]

men like that have me running.......... in the opposite direction

[georgit79]

you're a bit nasty (about Utd anyway) and I'm not attracted to you...

[SGKelloe32]

I have to say i don't find 'bad boys' attractive at all. I used to go out with one who was into dealing drugs (although i didn't know it at the time) My fiance is the total opposite, not a bad bone in his body and i love him to bits!

[FP]

I must admit to being attracted to the 'wrong' types when I was young.  I never found the romantic nice types particular attractive.  I'm not particularly romantic myself either.   I married a man who was definitely a challenge!  He says he found me the same!  I must admit I was a wild child all those years ago.

 

Thirty three years on and we're still together.  We are certainly not Derby and Joan and still have our stormy moments, but it's kept our relationship very much alive and I wouldn't swap him for anyone else.

 

 

[smudge]

FakePlastic, your last para echoes us to a T!

[archbishop]

Fakeplastic - I thought I was your ideal man. sob sob. Can't stand rejection.

[Chillum]

The biology argument doesn't really stand up, for although the bad-boy may be highly sexed, he is also far less likley to stick around and nurture your brood. His galavanting ways may also be directly harmfull to you own personal wellbeing and health. Being one of life's nice guys, I've never worked it out, though there are lots of women out there that don't like the roughies, like my lovely wife, thankfully.

[FP]

Can I have you as a reserve, Archbishop? 

[bobtheduck]

georgit79 you are just in denial :)

[zgma]

I'm also not attracted in the slightest to nasty men, but I think that when women are, it often has to do with how restrictive her parents are/were.  If they were very strict, then someone who breaks the rules a little bit can be very refreshing, and even if she has bad experiences with them, the next time she runs into one she's still going to be attracted to the element of danger.

[FP]

Hi Zgma,  My parents were not very strict with me at all.  In fact they were great.  I just like the element of danger in my life! 

[archbishop]

Aah I'm still in with a chance then Fakeplastic?

"GAB" flirty41,georgit79,Fakeplastic,zgma, and half "GAB" to smudge.

[FP]

Archbishop,  definitely first reserve!