Hi hazel, I had a similar situation with a close friend who moved to the area I live and then started to (it felt) take over my friends, popping in on them with out me and starting exercise classes etc without me. I had a really hard time dealing with it, and it's still not fully resolved, but it felt to me like she had to 'better' me - and do something first, so (for example) with your friend, she would need to see the house / baby before you so she could tell you all about it, and you'd be on a back foot. Good luck with whatever you do.