Firstly, how often do you want sex. And secondly, how often do you get sex. And based on these figures are you happy enough with your sex life or does it cause issues?
We have as much sex as we want. In our younger days that was every day. We have always had remarkably matched sex drives and now we do it once or twice a week. If we didn't have to go to work we would probably do it more.
Sex has always been so good with us that it is never difficult for the one who thinks of it to encourage the other. It is just so nice.
We are still passionate about each other in our fifties.