Inscriptions are regulated.... "murdered by so and so (who is one)" is likely to be refused even if it is true
gravestones are as well. I have bought a grave plot in a victorian look cemetery, and I will be allowed, angels on plinthes, broken vases. draped pillars (one only) but not a plastic worlitzer organ which flashes (oo-la-la) and pops out of the ground.
and BuenChico always a pleasure to read your pensees
those who are morbidly interested could also while a minute away with
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/William_Price_(physician)
who is the fella who exposed (the body of his dead ) son on ahillside and refused to bury him. and then tried to cremate him (later)
Led to the Cremation Act 1902