Prison...

[MadMen]

Bit of a random question, & I'm not sure where to post... But here goes.
I'm visiting someone in prison this week and I'm really nervous about the whole thing.
I've not been inside a prison before, but have watched Prisoners Wives. Is that what it's like? One big room? Are you sat on a table with the person you're visiting or is there something between you (like glass)?
Also, can I take a bag? Is there anything I can/can't take. I'm nervous about things like searching. Is it a bit like an airport, like no metal or clear liquids???

I'm on my phone and in a really bad signal area so my replies may be slow. TIA for any help or advice though :)

[ummmm]

I wasn't searched, they used sniffer dogs.

[rockyracoon]

Madmen, you may find ths link useful

http://www.insidetime.org/info-visitorsinfo.asp?nameofprison=HMP_DARTMOOR

[ummmm]

Also, I think it depends what Cat prison they are in.

[LyndaB]

This last week I too visited someone in prison for the first time, and like you was very nervous. However, I needn't have been. I suspect every prison is different, but this is how our visit went. We went to the reception first, where we were given a number. When our number was called, we then went over to the wing. We were not allowed to take anything at all in, but a little money (which is checked). Be sure to take your photo ID with you or you won't be allowed in. Everyone goes through a scanner, then is patted down. We were told which table to sit at - the room looked like a school hall. The money you can take in with you can be used to purchase food and drinks, both for yourself and the prisoner. I found the experience extremely emotional, but I'm glad I went, and certainly won't think twice before going again.

[MadMen]

That's great. Thankyou for all the help and reassurance. It's Dartmoor I'm going to.
Thankyou for the link RR.

[Peter Pedant]

yeah pumbah has got it right

you are going to visit someone for whom the ordeal isnt over when you leave. The prison officers (as I believe they're called) can be a bit arsy but it is all part of the ordeal - for you

[MadMen]

With all due respect.... They're in there for a reason!

[Peter Pedant]

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well yeah but you're in there for a reason
and it aint because you have committed a crime
[ so why treat you like a crim ? ]

[MadMen]

Eh?