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Would You Date A Woman That Worked For A Telephone Sex Line?
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Genuine question!
I'm chatting to a woman on a dating site who has just dropped that bombshell!
I find her attractive and she says that there is no genuine/heartfelt connection (or physical contact) with the callers, but I'm not sure that I'd like to date someone that did that job.
She says it wont be her job forever, but I've read so many things about this sort of thing morphing into something seedier, that I'm at a loss what to do!
Please help - without criticising me or slagging me off!
I'm chatting to a woman on a dating site who has just dropped that bombshell!
I find her attractive and she says that there is no genuine/heartfelt connection (or physical contact) with the callers, but I'm not sure that I'd like to date someone that did that job.
She says it wont be her job forever, but I've read so many things about this sort of thing morphing into something seedier, that I'm at a loss what to do!
Please help - without criticising me or slagging me off!
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It's obviously up to you. If you feel uneasy with it then, chances are, it will cause a problem between you in the long run.
My friend works on a TV 'chat line' channel and met her, now husband, when he phoned in! Bit weird for me, but each to their own.
In answer to your original question, no I would not date a man that worked on a telephone sex line. Don't think there's anything wrong with them, and I wouldn't judge someone who used them, but the green eyed monster would probably get the better of me.
My friend works on a TV 'chat line' channel and met her, now husband, when he phoned in! Bit weird for me, but each to their own.
In answer to your original question, no I would not date a man that worked on a telephone sex line. Don't think there's anything wrong with them, and I wouldn't judge someone who used them, but the green eyed monster would probably get the better of me.
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spongeface, Seriously??? *sighs*
I doubt she is "constantly up for it", but just see's this as a way of making a few extra bucks.
Although you may think she's sat there talking to men, dressed in nothing but sexy underwear with a vibrator in her hand, I don't think that'll be the case.
She's probably sat there, in her trackie pants, bored out of her mind and waiting for the guy on the other end to.. er... well, you know.
But anyway, I still wouldn't like it.
I doubt she is "constantly up for it", but just see's this as a way of making a few extra bucks.
Although you may think she's sat there talking to men, dressed in nothing but sexy underwear with a vibrator in her hand, I don't think that'll be the case.
She's probably sat there, in her trackie pants, bored out of her mind and waiting for the guy on the other end to.. er... well, you know.
But anyway, I still wouldn't like it.
Remember watching a comedy on stage where three "older" cleaners decided to make some money on the side by working for a telephone sex line. Absolutely hilarious as they sat there in their peenies and baffies pretending they were in fishnet tights and 6" killer heels. Worked great til one of them got her grandson on the line...............
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Genuine answer here.
Some years ago when my children were younger, I should add that I am a single parent, I did this as a job.
To me it was just a means to an end and a way of bringing in money to feed my kids and pay the rent. Now I can't answer on this womans behalf but for me it was just a job I could do that meant money coming in with out the hassle of childcare. I have met other 'operators' and trained a few and they were all in it for the same reason as me.
To do this line of work you do not have to be a sex maniac or have dreams of prostituting your self, just a good imagination and a sexy voice ;0)
Sounds like she's been more than honest with you... give the girl a chance!
Lisa x
Some years ago when my children were younger, I should add that I am a single parent, I did this as a job.
To me it was just a means to an end and a way of bringing in money to feed my kids and pay the rent. Now I can't answer on this womans behalf but for me it was just a job I could do that meant money coming in with out the hassle of childcare. I have met other 'operators' and trained a few and they were all in it for the same reason as me.
To do this line of work you do not have to be a sex maniac or have dreams of prostituting your self, just a good imagination and a sexy voice ;0)
Sounds like she's been more than honest with you... give the girl a chance!
Lisa x
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