I've Been De Friended!!

[silliemillie]

One of my friends has de friended me on Facebook.
To my shame I have only just noticed.
Thought I hadnt seen her posting of late (about a week) when she was always on several times a day before that.

went to click on her name to ask her if she was OK only to see she has de friended me.

Cant think of anything I could have done or said to offend her but do you think I should contact her and ask or leave it up to her to let me know if & when she feels fit!

We are middle age women not kids! I dont think I can be bothered to play guessing games.

[wildwood]

If it is that important to you.... err.... an email or using that old fashioned talking machine might give you a more direct answer.

[Iluvspikey]

this is why I don't facebook, life is too short!

[cupid04]

I'm sorry you are hurt by what you see as a snub from someone you call a friend. I don't understand facebook. Could you not write to her and ask if you have inadvertently upset her. It's lovely when the letterbox rattles and you get friendly chatty letters. so much more personal than facebook, emails etc!xx

[Wharton]

I received a really nice letter the other day, but there were lots I couldn't read, my handwriting is getting worse.

[cupid04]

Saddo, writing letters to yourself, lol!xx

[Wharton]

Saddo? - I never sign them and then wonder who could write me such lovely compliments - now there's Saddo :-)

[cupid04]

lol!^^

[Brinjal]

Phone her and ask her. Your not one of those serial posters that puts heaps and heaps of irrelevant stuff on fb are you. I have defriended some of my serial poster friends lol.

[anneasquith]

life's too short to stuff a mushroom !!!!!!!!!!!!

[magsmay]

Is she a 'real' friend silliemillie or a 'FB' friend? If she's a real freind then I would message her asking if she's ok -if she's just a FB friend then leave it.

[anneasquith]

excuse me..silliemillie............mags who is that in your avatar ?

[magsmay]

@Anne -me -in Goth gear for whitby Goth Week ;-)

[silliemillie]

I only have a few real friends & family on Facebook (Under30) I dont go in for all this 'look at me i've got 200 friends' lark. so she is a real friend.
I hardly post at all BRINJAL, that why I didnt notice for week! LOL!
Think I'll just give her a good old fashioned phone call.

[joko]

she may have just deactivated her account rather than deleted you?

can you see her profile and does it show the 'add friend' button?

if not, if shes just not there anymore, its probably deactivation

i once got quite pissed off at a girl because it seemed she'd deleted me... then she reappeared a few days later without me doing anything