I Need Relationship Help Really Badly! :(

[swizuul]

Ok this is going to be a long story...

Ok there is this girl i like and i had been talking to her for not that long but i developed feelings really quickly! :( , this saturday just gone there was a house party (my best mate was having a party), so i decided to get her invited as i saw she wasnt on the list(plus one), we had been talking on text alot and it seemed like she had some sort of feeling back the way she talked to me?. I was speaking to her a lot that night but obviously everyone got drunk so i accidentally told her i liked her (had feelings for her), she didnt really know what to make of it, (little did i know she only broke up with her boyfriend a week ago!), like shes not ready for relationships and stuff like that at the moment she kinda said so now i feel like an idiot and she may now see me in a different way?, what do i do?, i still want to see if there is something there in a couple weeks time, i really want her to be mine:(. i got off with her at the party (kissing) that was it. but for now she regards us as best friends.

(she likes to be a bit naughty to which makes me assumes she must have some sort of feeling haha!, e.g i said i was out playing football and i said id rather be in bed and she replied "yeah with me ;-)' , and i can tell when she is joking and when she isnt.

Someone please help me! :-)
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[cupid04]

Give it time and stay friends with her...and with a bit of luck if you're patient something deeper and more long lasting may take place. Good luck.

[Canary42]

Don't push her, be patient and let her get over the "rebound" effect of her lapsed relationship. And there's nothing wrong with feeling like an idiot - women do that to blokes all the time :-)

Remember - give her space.

[Old_Geezer]

Much what others have said. Invest a lilttle time and see if she decides to reciprocate. But don't waste months and months pining and building up hopes for one single individual, go out & enjoy your social life too.