A Girl I Like Is Older Then Me

[misterNiceGuy]

Hello How are you?? I have a issue... I am Besarti and i live in Albania. I started talking to a girl from facebook. We talked together for 1 year and 2 months.. the second month she won scholarship to Turkey(10 hrs distance from Albania). we are still talking, but the problem is that she is 8 months older than me,im 19.I do like her alot and i don't know if i can call it love but i think about her everyday. I don't know if she likes me back and it makes it more difficult for me.. I am afraid to tell her.. but also afraid that she finds another one.. She is e really good person with a good sense of humor and smart.. I am a good person funny romantic but still..i don't know what to do.. Im afraid she will reject me.. I need somebody to help me and find solution for this.. Thanks.

[Baldric]

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Science/Question1430289.html

This is number 3, beginning to look like spam now!

[Sipowicz]

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KN6ngThqMEs

[misterNiceGuy]

i didnt know where to answer..sorry

[Baldric]

You just did!

[tonyav]

Maybe skype her, that way you can talk to her face to face.

[misterNiceGuy]

@yonyav thanks for answering me. yeah she came back to Albania for summer and she well go again..

[tonyav]

Have you thought about asking if you could go with her.

[misterNiceGuy]

yes but..i can't.. see, im that type of guy that is afraid to take a step because something might go wrong

[tonyav]

Oh well, you'll have to do something or risk losing her.

[Baldric]

Fair enough, let it go then!

[misterNiceGuy]

but i cant :'(

[pastafreak]

You seem to be worried about the age difference. It's only 8 months...not really a difference. I think you really need to let her know that you like her...enough to want to stay in touch. Let her know that you don't want to lose contact. If she feels the same she'll agree. She's written to you for more than a year...I'm sure she has positive feelings.
Oh...and have you actually met her?

[misterNiceGuy]

yes @pastafreak.. in january.. we went to the cinema and mexican restaurant

[Baldric]

You're the only one who can sort it, either pluck up the courage and ask her or move on, we can't do it for you!

[MallyJ]

You just have to take a chance in life otherwise you may miss a great opportunity. If you tell her you like her a lot then she will either tell you she doesn't like you ..unlikely if you have been talking to her for a long time ... or she will tell you that she likes you back. The age difference is nothing at all to be concerned about.

[jourdain2]

What age difference? 8 months is nothing. Is this a serious question?
Serious answer - tell her you like her company and ask her out. If she says no (I once was genuinely washing my hair and had no hair-dryer) you accept that and ask if there is any chance of a date in the future. If not, you move on. We all fear rejection, sometimes you have to be brave, jump and hope the parachute opens.

[maggiebee]

Where do you live in Albania - I'm in Berati at the moment?

[maggiebee]

As Mally says, sometimes you just have to take a chance. What is the worst that can happen? If she says no then at least you'll know where you stand. Turkey is not so far away and the age difference is nothing.

[misterNiceGuy]

thank you all. I made a poem for her and when i see her i'll read it to her..i will also bye a flower and give it to her..i think its not a bad idea