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Is He Shy Or Just A Creeper?
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I work in a large corporate building - we have about 7 different offices within the building (500 + employees) and loads of restaurants and bars below us.
There is one man that I have noticed, and he noticed me initially for nearly 5 years now.
What I find really frustrating is - he obviously likes me. He waves/ nods hello at me for example and has signalled for a drink. Once he even got his friends to get up and was signalling to me come and sit next to him in the bar (I was in the opposite coffee shop... there are a lot of glass walls )
What I find really frustrating is He never approaches me, its all gestures and signals from afar.
My work colleagues say he is shy, insecure and uncertain because I am out of his league (btw many men who are not in my league have no problem whatsoever asking out so I don't believe that argument one bit), I have had this with previous exes so it does make some sense but even then .... is he too spineless, or a timewaster for me to spend my time thinking about him?
I cannot approach him myself, because I am not the man - sorry but that is how I feel about it. Is there anything else I can do?
My work friends won't approach him because they are like why does he not get his friends to approach you instead?
There is one man that I have noticed, and he noticed me initially for nearly 5 years now.
What I find really frustrating is - he obviously likes me. He waves/ nods hello at me for example and has signalled for a drink. Once he even got his friends to get up and was signalling to me come and sit next to him in the bar (I was in the opposite coffee shop... there are a lot of glass walls )
What I find really frustrating is He never approaches me, its all gestures and signals from afar.
My work colleagues say he is shy, insecure and uncertain because I am out of his league (btw many men who are not in my league have no problem whatsoever asking out so I don't believe that argument one bit), I have had this with previous exes so it does make some sense but even then .... is he too spineless, or a timewaster for me to spend my time thinking about him?
I cannot approach him myself, because I am not the man - sorry but that is how I feel about it. Is there anything else I can do?
My work friends won't approach him because they are like why does he not get his friends to approach you instead?
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"I cannot approach him myself, because I am not the man - sorry but that is how I feel about it."
And he cannot approach you himself, because he is not the confident type - sorry but that is how he feels about it.
"Is there anything else I can do?"
Yes, you can stop making excuses and make a friend instead.
And he cannot approach you himself, because he is not the confident type - sorry but that is how he feels about it.
"Is there anything else I can do?"
Yes, you can stop making excuses and make a friend instead.
Do you think he looks nice..... yes
Do you think he likes you........yes
Go up to him say " hello, I've been seeing you around for the last 5 years, I'm.............., I thought after all this time one of us needed to say hi properly."
You can leave the rest to him, judge it by his reaction. Not all men are strong confident creatures. Some of the nicest ones are sweet and shy
Do you think he likes you........yes
Go up to him say " hello, I've been seeing you around for the last 5 years, I'm.............., I thought after all this time one of us needed to say hi properly."
You can leave the rest to him, judge it by his reaction. Not all men are strong confident creatures. Some of the nicest ones are sweet and shy
// once as some of the women claimed the cleaners in adjacent buildings were waving/ harassing them(!).//
and the police have to take these allegations seriously
I was at college ( I am 67) and said to an equally mature teacher - you're looking very dapper today
and she said - say that again, and I will get you barred
no she wasnt joking.
and the Arabs - if they say to each other 'you terroristen' - they dont speak English very well,
that is grounds for exclusion in todays world
do you work in the UK -( or else does that question get you phoneing the police ?)
and the police have to take these allegations seriously
I was at college ( I am 67) and said to an equally mature teacher - you're looking very dapper today
and she said - say that again, and I will get you barred
no she wasnt joking.
and the Arabs - if they say to each other 'you terroristen' - they dont speak English very well,
that is grounds for exclusion in todays world
do you work in the UK -( or else does that question get you phoneing the police ?)
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