How Do I Get My Crush To Like Me?

[imlegit]

So I'm 12 and my crush is 13 he's on my bus and I reallyreallyreally like him. He's kinda popular in his grade ig and drinks and smokes and all that but hes still a little quiet sometimes. I talked to him before and I fell i luv! But now month later I dont talk to him anymore. :(
I was being a little stalkerish for idk a week or 2 cuz i couldnt get him outta my mind!!! Anyways I really want to talk to him hes on bus but he always sits with his friends . Since hes on my bus I see him outside of school but usually we just pass each other. I see him alone in the hallways but I only have a 4 minute passing period and its hella crouded so I just pass him!!!! I wont give up though so I really need advice plss.

[rowanwitch]

If he was interested he would have started a conversation at least. It's not love, it's just a crush,and you will have lots of them before you find 'the one's. Just get on with school and your friend stuff, you can't make someone like you in that way, it's all about chemistry and sometimes s feelings are only one way.

[davebro]

Don't get involved with someone who drinks & smokes at such a young age would be my advice. Drugs will probably follow & who knows where that will lead.

[dannyk13]

Agree with Dave.

[imlegit]

rowanwitch

someone has to start talking to the other person to see where things go? Girls can go up to guys and talk to them first yk I just need help trying to start that lmao you cant just have someone like you u like first out of nothing you have to start talking to them

[emmie]

totally agree with dave, smoking and drinking is against the law at his age. So he is breaking it by doing so. Do you want to go the same way?

[Cloverjo]

You’ve just answered your own question, imlegit.

[roopower]

If he drinks and smokes at 13, he is not cool. Look for someone else to admire from afar.

[Bobbisox1]

I agree with hoppy, there really should be a ‘Wind Up’ category on here now

[bednobs]

if you have never spoken, how do you know you really like him? he might be a knob

[elliemay1]

Pay attention bednobs!
// I talked to him before and I fell i luv!//

[elliemay1]

I'm intrigued that it takes 4 mins to pass in the hallways

[bednobs]

sorry, clearly i didnt read properly.
I would suggest you do the same thing you did before then

[bobbinwales]

elliemay- guess its a 4 mins 'change over' gap between lessons

[Cloverjo]

Elliemay, haven’t you seen US school corridors on tv? You’ve got to barge someone, ignore the mean girls, bully the quiet ones and stare into your locker for a while. There’s a lot to do in those four minutes ;)

[pastafreak]

I believe 4 minutes is the amount of time allowed to get from lesson A to lesson B. In a large school that may be barely enough.