I am a Feemason and it is all about being an upright citizen and charity. Charitable giving includes Masonic and non-masonic (medical research, youth organisations, hospices, lifeboats, church, educational etc). The secrets are to do with proof of membership if, for example, one was visiting a town where you were not known, you could with a few days notice visit a Lodge and prove you were qualified. Freemasonry is not a secret society....its in the phone books and on the web, and the Museum in London at Grand Lodge is open to the public. The 2nd World War brought about a lot of the "secrecy" because "walls have ears" Before the war local newspapers reported events quite freely, and still do in Scotland, The U.S.A., and Australia. Many famous people, including 8 or 9 astronauts were freemasons...........its not a secret!!