White supremacist wife who dated black men?

[ricky760]

After marrying my wife, I learned she used to be a member of a white supremacist group. At first I thought," Just great. I've married a racist". Then I find out from her father that twice she has dated black men... one before the racist stint, and once again after. She has made sublime remarks that lead me to believe she fantasizes about black men (I have creole on one side of my family, and she seemed thrilled at the idea that I was not completely white). My question is: Is this a subject I should address with her, or should I just let this go and chalk it up to the idea that people can radically change their beliefs over time?

[jno]

if you didn't trouble to find out about her background before you married her, you'll have to stick with what you've got. But is she saying or doing anything that is actually a problem for you right now?

[Octavius]

Well it certainly seems like she has walked around the whole shopping centre and then gone back to the first shop.

[ELVIS68]

I was like that once then I discovered Neapolitan ice cream

Perhaps she did the same

[Sonak]

Hi ricky760 - I think you should discuss it with her as soon as you can. Sometimes all the deepest & darkest secrets come out after a marriage, so just prepare yourself for what's to come!

If you feel in anyway her intention with you is not sincere then I think you should really have a long think about this.
If she appears to have changed radically like you've said then just see how things go but I hope along the line you do NOT get hurt or disrespected because of who you are as no-one deserve that!!!!

All the best and good luck

[whiffey-leg]

boo.