Captain Smith was'nt on the bridge at the time she struck the ice berg, if she had struck the berg head on it's true she probably would not have sank, if Lightholer had been on watch he may well have chosen that plan of action (he served on the sailing ship Holt Hill), she was ging too fast and with an inadequate watch, she was never going to cross the Atlantic in record time as she was much too slow (Titanic was designed for comfort not speed), with regard to the lifeboats she exceeded board of trade regulations by some margin, the "Wellin davitts" that were on the vessel were designed to carry enough lifeboats for all but were not fitted due to them making the decks look ugly.
At the time of the sinking many suffragettes complained that the women should have stayed with the men to demonstrate their strength and equality.