To responsd to flip-flp -
marrying in church is not necessarily hypocritical.
Lots of people believe on God but do not go to chuch regularly, if at all. They may well wish to have their children baptised to allow the children a choice to accept or reject a faith when they are of an age to make an informed decision.
In the Catholic church, some children who are ot baptised as Catholics are not elligible to enter Cartholic schools as their first choice - and people may elect for baptism on that basis.
It mnay be hypocracy in some instances - but not by any means all instances, and each person has a right to choose - as I understand it, God is nothing if not all-embracing and non-judgemental - it is for believers to follow that example, especailly about the behaviour of others.
As an atheist, I have no such knotty moral issues with which to wrestle. My wife and children are all Catholic - we married in church because it was what my wife wanted - i had no problem with it.