Ok, where should I start from? Because as usual when it comes to Islam, this question is also going off the track. Main reasons are usually are anti Islamic websites where knowingly (and most of the time unknowingly) people end up. You type word Islam in google and about 80% websites although will sound very Islamic but will be anti Islamic. Their main objective is to spread misinformation.
Daisy – Islam does talk about virgins in the paradise but people in the west had never been worried about that until few people trained by the western countries (at some stage of their lives) started blowing themselves under the illusions. Simplest answer would be that if I want to go to paradise then my primary objective would be to be with my creator. However if you have in your mind what I believe you have then why not refer to this link and you may get all the answers as someone had asked the same kind of question.
http://answers.yahoo....20090126002909AAPLWD7
Eddie – That is the reason I asked you to provide me where in Quran it is what you claimed because once again you probably heard somewhere or saw on an anti Islamic website. Surely you could not differentiate between Quran and Hadith. I have seen all the websites you are giving me. But I do hope for anyone who seriously is interested in learning anything about Islam (or anything else) then they should not stop once they have been on an anti Islamic website and must then read the response from Islamic websites too. However if someone is only interested in finding questions and not the answers then no one can help them. To answer your question I would only say one thing that you are not the first one and I would not answer that question here. The reason is that this question has been answered so many time here.