@ Khandro - You still haven't given us any details of what, exactly, De Botton proposes that we take from religion to improve society.(from your OP "The real task is to recycle elements of religion for secular use. These elements must be "dislodged from the supernatural structure within which they were first conceived""[i)
Please point out where I have been anything other than calm, polite or rational? According to you , all but Beso are the opposite. ([i]"This topic is 'Religion and Spirituality' but it seems (beso on this thread excepted) impossible to hold a calm, rational, discussion."[i] )
You ask ] "rather than you correcting us about our misunderstandings of spirituality// Where have I done this? "
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I would have said here [i "Your love of Mozart has absolutely nothing to do with it, having no more spiritual significance than your passion for fine wines and Belgian chocolates"] - which read very much like a patronising put down to me.
You take the view that an atheist worldview is an exclusively material one,and when it comes to cause and effect of events and the workings of the body and the brain - yes, I think that is broadly true, although there will always be exceptions.
Secondary to this though, is a further assumption, tied in to this one, that those with a religious belief somehow have a connection, a feeling about the universe around them that transcends "mere" materialism, which I have labelled in my posts "spirituality". Here there is a divergence of view. Raw feelings, strong emotions and strong responses to emotions, appreciation of genuinely creative or beautiful natural phenomena or created phenomena, such as truly majestic works of music - these phenomena have often been described as this "spiritual" or non-material response.
If this is not your definition, lets have your definition, rather than trading misunderstandings!
Your response to Beso's post would indicate at least a sympathetic view of mind-matter duality, and here I would definitely differ - mind is an emergent property, not a seperate, immaterial entity.
If you want a serious discussion about this sort of stuff, lets have concrete examples of what De Botton thinks we should take from religion, lets have at least some definition from you of exactly what it is that the religious experience that atheists allegedly cannot.