Ah boingo - you're just not seeing the bigger picture here are you?
If blood is needed, you refuse, because you are a JH, and you don't believe it is right.
Your loved one will die, like the doctor's told you, but that's OK, because like everything else in life from a stubbed toe to an eathquake, it's 'God's Will' so don't be upset, you did the right thing.
Grief? You won't be bothering with that, after all you have done 'God's Will. so you don't need to be sad about signing the death warent of your child or parent.
Are you buying this?
Nope! Me neither!!