Pixie, I don’t see where 2sp has been patronised here, but that said, her analogy, which you agree with, is wonky in the extreme. All men aren’t rapists, therefore there is no reason for all men to verbally distance themselves from rapists. However, all Muslims are Muslims, and if people belong to a club where certain members are committing atrocities in the name of that club, it is in the interests of the rest of the members - and in this instance the world at large - to say very loudly and clearly, ‘Not in my name’.