divebuddy, // the religious can take solace from their religion when facing up to the death of a loved one or, indeed, their own looming death…. If you genuinely believe that your loved one has "gone to a better place" and/or " God must have his reasons for taking them" it must make grieving easier than if you just think, that's it, they are dead (and perhaps they died badly, to boot).//
I agree. I'm sure it makes acceptance easier - and there's no harm in that. The bereaved find comfort where they can. When an untimely death occurs unless those left behind can find some justification in it - for example "it's God's will" - the harsh reality that there is no evidence that God exists is too difficult for some to contemplate. I can understand that.