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Do We Suffer Through Our Desires?

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beryllium | 13:12 Mon 25th Jun 2007 | Religion & Spirituality
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Will the suffering stop when the need for desire stops?
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Well, the Buddhists certainly think so, but is this necessarily something to be strived for?

Desire is an essential part of life. We desire oxygen, we desire food, shelter, companionship and sex, but we also desire riches and/or goods and/or knowledge and/or the cancellation of Westlife's record contract. Some of those things are good desires, others less so, but we certainly cannot be alive in any meaningful way without desire.
That�s a bit philosophical for a Monday morning, but a need is a true deficiency, lack or shortage of something essential in our lives. A desire, on the other hand, is not necessarily something that is essential, but something which is enjoyable. Some things cross boundaries and are needed, desired and wanted, such as the expulsion of Mariah Carey from planet Earth.

But other than audibly � which is easily cured, I don�t suffer for it.
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oh Waldo :-) lol Westlife....

But Buddhists are still desiring a state of mind they wish to reach. So it's a paradox?
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lol Octavius.

I am now thinking.

I desire Simon Cowell to be jettisoned into a black hole.

You want to read the Kabbalah's version about desire!! Its awesome!!
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That's beautiful taliesin. Thank You. Big Smiles :-)
Off the subject - and my apologies - but how are you Beryl?
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Hi Naomi :-)
I'm ok. Just waiting to get properly better again. I'm even considering IV Steroids atm, but then I'm always considering lol.... it's that desire thing rearing it's head up again.....
From my heart, I really do love to see the names in R+S :-)
And how? the devil are you?
xxx


surely, the only time that we stop 'desiring' is when we're dead?
And then it doesnt matter either way...
just a thought...
when you stop desiring something ( the best for your children, to be a non smoker, peace in the world, to learn a new skill, the will to to read a new book, the will to master a new piece of technology, the 'oomph' to set a new world record, etc)...doesnt that make you any more than an animal, surviving on instincts alone?
If we stopped desiring then we would be little more than the animals of the field.
Ancient Buddhist religious cr@p, like all other religious cr@p.
life is sh!t. and hard (red in tooth and claw),
better get used to it. No amount of religious claptrap is goin to change it................
..... on the other hand, Laurens Van Der Post describes the difference between us and the bushmen of the Kalahari, as the difference between "having" and " being".
Read in its context, it makes sense, and the old bushmen, (the San), if there are any left, could teach us a thing or two about desires.
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Hi Guys :-)

Laurens Van Der Post.
Theland, is that available as an e-book please? because it looks like a good read :-)

Wiz :-) ho hum..... peace and love then.

B. xxx
Don't know about e books, but the link describes VDP's two main books about the Kalahari people, the San. Really interesting.
http://www.ratical.org/many_worlds/LvdP/works. html#LWK

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