Cypriot Godparenting

[MissMitzi]

Could someone explain the cultural nuances of Godparenting in the Greek Orthodox/ Cypriot community? I have a co-worker who was appalled that my bf is my kids' Godfather- likening it to incest! He also said that in Cyprus, one can never be Godparent to unrelated children of different genders- again, likening it incest. I'm not Greek Orthodox, so I'm not too bothered- just curious as to whether this is generally true or if the guy's is just a bit off! Thanks!

[Goodsoulette]

It's a similar tale in Catholic circles, when you become a godparent you become part of the family so even widowed women wouldn't marry their child's godfather.

[Goodsoulette]

I should add that used to be, I dont think thats part of canon law anymore but ive just checked impediments to marriage for those who are greek orthodox and your situation would be one.

[MissMitzi]

Thank you. I'm Catholic, but my bf isn't. Would the restriction apply in our case?

[Goodsoulette]

nah, I don't think it even applies in catholic law now. It used to though. I looked at the impediments for marriage for catholics and its not listed so I assume not.

[MissMitzi]

Great! Thanks!