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Thanks, DTC ("you use your reins...the backward pull should bring them to a halt, no verbal needed"). My fault for a clumsy question. I was trying to discover how you might DESCRIBE the action. Hardy wrote "and reining nigh me" meaning the woman on the horse stopped riding, near him, and I have always thought it a bit clumsy (the phrase, not the riding!)
It's a 3-in-the-morning thing. You wonder to yourself 'how would I write that line', 'how could I improve it?' Often the answer is that you can't, improve it that is, but it keeps me sane some of the time.
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