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I would like to do a bit of an update on this, as so many people have been kind enough to offer help. I went down the road of changing my hair colour slightly, and changing the style so that the edges of my hair were more curly to give an irregular outline. went into max spielman (again they must be sick of seeing me), they took a photo, not accepted. A young woman there, who i havent seen before told me that they have had this problem several times with people, especially women, who have light coloured hair, and if i had a good quality photo of my own, taken exactly in line with the conditions, to send it anyway. I did this, it asked me some questions about the photo, and to explain why i thought their declining of it was wrong. after that i uploaded it again, and it said it had been accepted! so make of that what you will. i have sent in the old passport and wait with bated breath an outcome from this.