Thank you,that's what i've been saying all along. I figured you might just be misunderstanding the way i put it,but thats the way it was taught to me at college and university.
And by the way,i have a lot of respect for all the AB,ers here including you, who are doing their very best to help others solve their problems,most of whom are very dignified with their responses....it's just that i don't think it's very helpful to say they're speaking*** even if they are....having said that ,there's certainly no hard feelings on my part!