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Delighted to hear that, Baths. Depression is a real thing, not a ‘get over it’ situation.
Best part of 2015 happened in my sleep.
In January I dreamt about someone from my past for the first time in decades. A freak turn of events effectively conned us out of a 5-year relationship at the precise point when she wanted us to get over a petty argument. The details are too complicated to put here, but we got it horribly wrong, and she has never known what happened.
This first dream had me meeting her about 20 years on and beginning to explain it all, the first step on a long road towards reconciliation.
5 or 6 dreams were spread over the year and, amazingly (because it never happens with other dreams), the story gradually moved on until the last one – at the beginning of November – which had a beautiful outcome.
The way we split up stays raw, but the dreams have stopped and I’m more at peace than I was.
BTW, my opinion on dreams being significant is the same as ever – ie it’s nonsense. The content of those dreams means almost nothing. I’m just glad of the effect they had at the end.