Margotester - //A-H - I am a trifle confused. Your post at 12.56 said that being a mod didn't give you grief but at 13.13 you seemed to infer that you were not a mod. //
Sorry for the confusion.
What I was saying was that I don't offer a reference to the rules on a daily basis, I only try to steer people away from a deletion / ban which are responses to be avoided.
I meant that, if on occasion I do remind someone of the rules, I am doing it merely as an AB'er, I am not trying to be heavy-handed or hectoring by saying 'I am a Moderator and I am warning you ...' - that is not my stance at all.
And yes, I am a Moderator - I think that particular cat is out of the particular bag now!!!