I feel I have to comment about an interesting statement that Hippy made, within Hippy's answer:
"...cause the poor darlings to be repressed or worse, turn gay."
In today's society of supposed tolerance and equal rights, and understanding, I found Hippy's comment that people can "turn" Gay, and using the word "at worse" implying this is something bad, just continues to enforce negativity, and mis-information, on this subject. I just get so mad when I see any kind of subtle prejudice creeping into people's comments, whether it is homophobia, racism, anything! Hippy certainly has not lived up to his/her name which to me represents the live-&-let-live ideology...!