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The Fear Of Giving Offence Is Killing Democracy And Stifles Truth

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naomi24 | 06:27 Thu 12th May 2016 | News
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Jim, //"identity politics". This is, essentially, the entirely reasonable idea that who you are shouldn't be determined entirely or principally by how society sees you, but rather by how you see yourself.//

Jim, Entirely reasonable? That makes no sense. How on earth do you expect other people to determine your perception of yourself?

//People are still free to say what they wish to, perhaps even freer than before.//

People who baulk against political correctness aren’t. That’s what the article is about.
"How on earth do you expect other people to determine your perception of yourself?"

I suppose it depends on the part of the perception in question, but I don't want to go too far into it. Suffice it to say that for many people, for many reasons, it remains a problem that what society thinks they are overrides what *they* think they are. Even the perception that this might be a problem makes it so. Only time will begin to change that.

But anyway. I think people who baulk against PC are freer than they give themselves credit for. Guess it depends on how exactly they baulk against it. And even then, freedom to say or to do something doesn't mean freedom from consequence. That's another distinction people seem to overlook for some reason.
Apart from the Club or the Bar, were one still has to speak in hushed tones, along with a little head revolving, we do have sites such as this where we are relatively free to voice our opinions.

But if anyone dares to do the same via the media, they face not only criticism or humiliation but could see their careers put at jeopardy.

Even such TV shows as Gogglebox which is supposed to show real families watching TV and making comments on the programmes is slanted towards the left and strictly PC.
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Jim, that doesn’t answer the question. People in all walks of live perceive themselves in a way that others don’t. You can’t expect society to get inside your head.

//freedom to say or to do something doesn't mean freedom from consequence.//

That’s obvious! Hence the accusations of racism, bigotry, etc., often the consequence of speaking the truth.
Maybe it didn't answer the question, but then I wasn't trying to. It's not about "expecting society to get inside your head" really, though.
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Jim, you've lost me.
Yes, Naomi, it is exactly what many have been saying for a long time - and have been accused of all sorts of things for saying it. Even my own children say 'Mum, you can't say that!'- well, yes, I can and do, but these days you have to consider carefully before you speak. At this rate we'll have to re-write 'Othello'! well, black man kills innocent white wife.... tut! Stereotyping!
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Jourdain, //Even my own children say 'Mum, you can't say that!'- well, yes, I can and do//

Haha! Love it! :o)
Some people are so determined to preserve their right to cause offence wherever possible that they forget about their responsibility not to.

But anyway. Even in terms of that last sentence it shouldn't be an "obligation" to be polite. People have to be free to be as rude as they like. I just wish they wouldn't be. But some people do forget that freedom to offend, if you will, is something worth preserving.
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Jim, that’s contradictory. If people have a responsibility not to offend (which I don’t agree with), how come the freedom to offend is worth preserving? If they take the responsibility not to offend seriously, then their freedom to offend is worth zilch.
I don't see how it's contradictory. It's the difference between, say, something being not allowed, and something being wrong. Some things that are wrong are still allowed; some things that aren't allowed aren't wrong.

People should have the freedom, then, to cause offence if they so choose. Ideally, they should choose not to. Which, I would have thought, we can all agree with. If I can be excused one more awful cliche, isn't it just nicer to be nice?
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Jim, It is nice to be nice – but sometimes it’s more appropriate to speak out.
//Jim, It is nice to be nice – but sometimes it’s more appropriate to speak out. //

indeed - as evidenced by Nigeria's president's reported reaction to Mr Cameron's (ill judged?) remark about corruption, as reported on the BBC News this morning.


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Oh yes. The man who wants the return of assets stolen from Nigeria by Nigerians and stored in British banks. Not quite sure how our government can accommodate him on that one.
Well, you can be excessively nice too, I suppose. In general I think "the truth" is more easily stifled by people being too unconcerned with giving offence, rather than the other way round.

For example, if people who baulk against PC are less free now to speak their mind, it's worth remembering that in the past such people had way too much freedom -- who could say, do and think whatever they liked and woe betide anyone who dared challenge the orthodoxy. There's maybe a "conservation of freedom" thing going on here, in that in the past fewer people were more free, whereas now more people have shared the freedom around. On balance, I prefer the latter, although neither is ideal.



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Jim, People who appear to be excessively nice are rarely genuinely excessively nice. They'll say what you want to hear, but you never know what they're thinking. It's an act. Personally I prefer people who speak their mind. At least I know where I stand with them.
'The fear of giving offence is killing democracy and stifles truth'. How very, very, very true !!
//Personally I prefer people who speak their mind. At least I know where I stand with them. //

some years ago i worked with a US railroad employee who lived in montgomery alabama (where MLK had his first ministry, home of Rosa Parks, etc). it's important i mention he was black, because he said he preferred living in alabama rather than new york (where he previously lived), because at least he knew those who reacted to him as a person in the south were being more truthful than those in the so-called enlightened north.
Well, it's a personal choice, I guess. Some things don't really need to be said in order for you to "know where you stand" with someone.

But regardless, if it's possible to be too nice then it's also possible to be too rude. The truth can lose out that way too.
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Mushroom, I can believe that. It’s a good example.

Jim, people who are disingenuous with their ‘niceness’ don’t necessarily care about the recipient of that ‘niceness’ – even though that’s the impression they give. Very often they only care about the recipient’s perception of them. People who are ‘too rude’ aren’t usually concerned about how they are perceived and therefore you are more likely to get the truth from them.

Got to go out now. Back later.

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