step 4 is also quite good
having done this for someone
first take advice
then write to all and say OK what will you accept if I pay off
may sure it is all on the same date and PAY !
then I paid his debts and he paid me ( and then he died yes before rull payment ho hum c'est la vie )
If you dont have a lump sum ( or some sucker with the moolah, see above ) you need to seek advice about consolidation and an IVA which is quite another thing....
do start at the CAB - my fren' had already had a IVA in place for which he paid far too much - rejecting out offers of help and preferring other creditors.... yes
and yeah I agree debt is such a posser - try to get debt free, life is better
that is why we did it ....
[ oh he just went out and got more credit cards and ran up another £10k. It was a lesson I needed to learn ..... ]
so start at the CAB - they are VERY GOOD at debt since they see such a lot and have lots of practice