Should i tell her i like more than a friend?

[andy_k01]

I have known this girl pretty well for 3 years now. We went to the same school but i also work with her. Since i can remember i have had feelings for her. We have only been out together twice and haven't kissed but i know there is something more than just a friendship. I find it hard to talk to her in work dont no why, but it's when im alone with her that i no we click. i cant seem to find the courage to just tell her i want more than a friendship, and everytime i want another date it takes me ages to ask her.

I cant have this regret feeling for much longer, but i think if i tell her she will just say "friends" nothing more and then the friendship could be ruined. all i want i just one chance to show im right for her! Is it worth telling her?

[Dan Glebitts]

try holding hands while going for a peaceful walk...if she doesnt feel like it then you just say sorry and thats that...no problem....dont move in for the kill with a kiss 'cos that may be a big step.
If you are sure she feels for you like you do for her or there is a "click" then you definetley should give it a go...if it doesnt work and you haven't been too forward then she isnt the one and there was no click in the first place. you will only know by trying it... trust your instinct but dont go too far.....


good luck

[andy_k01]

i think a walk is a fantastic idea, cheers! but it's just getting the courage to ask her again! but i suppose there is no harm in asking. but it's easier said than done.

[baby-t]

yes i think you should tell her how you feel because if u dont youll regret it for the rest of your life and maybe she likes you 2 i mean youve allready been on 2 dates with her so give it a shot

[Dan Glebitts]

dont be scared, we all get scared. God knows i do! The end result is well worth the worry now..just ask her if she wants to meet up in town, dont say a date or she may get the wrong idea..

only follow my instructions if you want to take it slowly with her...

Good luck...again

[andy_k01]

sounds good, but i think 3 years and 2 dates is just a bit slow lol.

[Dan Glebitts]

well, ask her out on more dates! but dont call em dates, just meet up for a meal...thats what i always do and it usually works every time :)

just go at ur own pace and use your noodle...

[andy_k01]

******* right! if she says no, big woop! ill move on. but if i want her ill have to go for her, time to grow some balls!

[Dan Glebitts]

nice one! :-)

take it easy chap