Obsessed

[biscuit]

Hi am new to this and was scanning sites for a bit of advice


I am mid 20s male and i am very happy in a long term relationship, we have bought a house together and things are great

However there a girl at work i am constantly thinking about and im worried its developing into a bit of an obsession, we get on well in work but dont see each other outside of work, we are facebook friends and i keep having to resist sending her a facebook message, she has shown no interest in me in a relationship sense but i just keep thinking about her wondering what she is doing etc and i find myself checking facebook to see when she was last on it etc

i realise i am sounding a bit like a love struck teenager but it is getting somewhat worrying now that i will do something i regret by contacting her
and affecting my relationship with my girlfriend who i do love very much

any advice would be welcome



thank you

[murraymints]

OG that is NOT helpful !!

[waterboatman]

The thing to do is obvious. You are in a happy relationship with your girlfriend. The girl at work is just that. the girl at work. A good workin g reslationship is fine. But that is what it should remain. You have nothing to gain and a whole lot tyo lose, also doing your girlfriend a great deal of damage. Get a grip lad!

[Sqad]

Going through life doing all the righteous and socially acceptable acts is very laudable.....but *** boring.

[murraymints]

you ARE naughty Sqad...depends how much you value what you have !

[Sqad]

Murray^^^ agreed.
Although it is human to want more, to strive harder and to ...." dream the impossible dream"......isn't it.

[waterboatman]

Can't argue with that sqad!

[murraymints]

perhaps...but to be content with what you have is good too !! xx

[Sqad]

WBM......it's balls and you know it...LOL

[waterboatman]

:o}

[Sqad]

Murray...sorry... I can't.....to be happy with what you have is the beginning of the downward slope .....in my case.
I wonder how many people think...."this is my lot" and are happy with it?

[murraymints]

right where's my passport ? I'll be over to spank you shortly !! lol

[Sqad]

Murray....you being the exception, I would rather be spanked by WBM than many of the women on AB.

[waterboatman]

That's what he's waiting for minty! ;o}

[waterboatman]

No chance of that mate. But I know what you mean!

[murraymints]

lol..I will pack the Miss Whiplash outfit..need to get the jack boots back from Timpsons...being resoled !!