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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.hi ellen, I think probably you have both behaved badly and in an immature way, that might sound hurtful but no point sugar coatinf stuff, never rely on what a third party tells you as you never know their motives. Move on as you are both wasting energy on a relationship that was not serious in the first place.
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Quick Question how old are you? The more you chase a bloke the more they will ignore you, or worse, give you attention when they want to and then drop you like a hot potatoe when they are bored. Trust me, he's no good for you and if you think about it, if he really cared for you, he wouldn't put you through so much pain and hurt, stop making excuses for him, he's a git. I know that it's a horrible thing to come to terms with, but the sooner you do the better. As soon as you are seen out enjoying yourself without asking about him then he'll start making his moves on you, ignore them, politely tell him that you are over him now and it was nice to see him ,but you're a bit busy. If you tell him to go away straight he'll just keep on at you as he knows that he has got your attention, if you show interest then he'll continue to treat you as he has been doingm which is wrong, so be polite and then get on with enjoying your self, believe me he's not the one for you and you deserve someone so much better than that, and he's out there somewhere. Good luck
You say you were upset when you saw him whilst you were out and he ignored you, yet for two weeks prior to this you had been ignoring his texts and calls. What did you expect? And to say you are now hurt that he is ignoring your calls, how do you think he felt when you did that to him?
I think it is time for you to grow up and move on from this relationship.
I'm inclined to think that if this relationship was going to work, everything would have been right in the first place and you wouldn't have split up. All these comings and goings between you are doing neither of you any good. Just put it down to experience and the fact that you were incompatible and move on. You both sound as if you're acting like young children and no permanent solid relationship will thrive on this kind of immaturity.