guilt

[Amiira]

my b/f told me he slept with someone else. He was cool towards me, even though I told him all the time I love him. So I ended the relationship. At first I was sad, then got angry and sent some very nasty texts! So now I am the one feeling guilty, as he didnt respond to any of them. Had he responded I would feel better. I feel like the wicked witch, even though he was unfaithful. Was I wrong to send the texts?

[dot.hawkes]

You were probably not suited and he didn't love u even if u think you loved him. Why text him, you should have spoken to him directly.

[Amiira]

Well, he used to love me (I know) I did talk to him Dot But my angry texts came later.

[Glenn7140]

no u had 2 let him know how u felt about him sleeping with some else and if i was a u i would send him more in fact 4get about him get out there and and start lookin for some1 new go girl lol hope that helped

glenn x x x

[*Zeus*]

doobedoo

[Amiira]

Thanks Glenn, I havent sent anyone, though did actually ring his landline tonight(answerphone) on, and said sorry for sending the nasty texts! geez.

[Amiira]

Zeus, this was a serious question. If you cant be arsed to answer, then, say nothing!

[raysparx]

Hi Amira,

I am a bloke,and all I can say to you is why should you feel guilty? you were hurt badly and let down in the worst way by this idiot, he does not deserve somebody to love him if he wanted to finish with you he should have done that first, Take care, Ray xx

Just remember what goes round,comes round,his turn to get hurt next.

[missjef]

i think glenn's right. you had the right to be angry enough to send nasty texts, i dont think you should be guilty he shouldnt havwe cxheated on you. he's the guilty one so dont worry!!

em x

[ronnie_07]

Amiira , put yourself in his shoes ( temporary I promise) !

If you had done what he had done would you not expect the backlash ? Your guilt wont be as half as bad as his (assuming he has a conscience)

Move on from worrying, plenty more pebbles on the beach!

[Amiira]

Just read your replies. Knowing him, he doesnt feel guilty. So why should I!

Thank you all x

[888sally888]

What goes around comes around. An ex did this to me and I found out on his mobile. He then went back to his wife and is bored and unhappy - hee hee. And yes I was really nasty to him at the time. You have done nothing wrong!