Help Needed

[4getmenot]

Morning everyone. So it's one of my closest friends birthdays today. So normally like with any friend I'd ring or txt saying 'happy birthday' . Well the other bit of this story is that her father died yesterday . I don't want her to think I've forgotten but what am I supposed to say.

[1ozzy]

Ring, ask, then take it from there.

Don't let your friend forget you are there for them

[4getmenot]

I msgd yesterday to say I'm here for her.

[murraymints]

I'd ring and just tell her that you are thinking of her today...sad

[Cloverjo]

Say something like 'I hope you have as good a birthday as possible. Sorry to hear about your dad.'

[1ozzy]

Good, follow up with a call.

[Maydup]

Text to say that you are thinking of her today, and that you are in this evening if she fancies a chat or a cuppa together. Don't worry about mentioning the birthday, she know you've remembered.

[waterboatman]

Phone her. I'm sure she will appreciate it, and will give her someone who cares to talk to. Let her set the pace. But if it were me, I would phone her.

[4getmenot]

Once husbands back from work later I might pop round hers. I have her presents to give her too

[murraymints]

nice ..good friend ....be a shoulder xx

[waterboatman]

Good plan. As minty says, be the shoulder for her.

[Maydup]

Great decision, I didn't know how close by you were or whether you were free today. Sad day for her and she'll be pleased to see a friend.