I love the idea of scented candles, I just don't light them or have them in the house, they cause my mouth to dry up, anything scented like wheaten bags (for the microwave) nice bags of dried flowers and commercial incense doesn't help me relax at all, recently went to fancy shop where among other things there was the scented corner, sticks in bottles and the like, I had to run out for air, and was very unwell for the rest of the day. I once knew what was in a gift box for me as in the heat of the house my tummy was churning, lips were getting dry, so my lovely friend that had given it to me was with me at the time and she told me it was home made little dried lavender bags (pomander) - I was very disappointed for her going to so much trouble to treat me. They are popular with a lot of folk though