please help me part 2

[imaneedhelp]

i thank you all so much. its weird to find people that dont judge me. i was scared to post on here as i am a regular but needed a diff name as so no one knows who i am. its mad i have a comfort zone i can go from 27 stone 1 week to 25 stone the following week. but can i get below 25 NO!!!!
I have a mental block when i reach 25 stone its like a destruct button being switched in my head. I have been
on xenical and reductil but dont do anything. i'm on a waiting list for gastric bypass surgery. I WILL DO IT FOR MYSELF MY WIFE AND KIDS. AND ALL YOUR HELP. THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART.

[Amara]

I really pray that you don't need to have the surgery, it is so drastic, but understand totally the anguish you are suffering. Noone has the right to judge anyone and although there is a lot of light hearted stuff on here, there are a lot of very caring and kind people who are always willing to give a positive comment and help where it is genuinely needed. I wish I could do more to help you but send you my love and best wishes anyway. Amara xx

[B00]

Awww bless your little socks xxxxx
You will do it, i've no doubt.

All the very best- and most of us wouldn't judge you at all, hell, none of us are perfect.

Take care of yourself

Boo
xxx

[shaneystar2]

I wish you all the best.If you set your mind to it you can do it.
I was overweight and have managed to lose three stone now and feel fit and well.
See your GP ....most GP surgeries now have a practice nurse who will advise you on what you can and can't eat.They will also monitior your weight loss,BP etc. Going every couple of weeks to be weighed will give you the incentive to keep at it.Once you have got a few stone off you can do some gentle exercise ..walking and swimming.
Have you had your thyroid function checked ? If not mention it to your GP.
Think of the weight on your joints and the damage it could do to your knees,hips etc.
Think positive and I'm sure you will do it.Good luck.

[electricblue]

I lost around 5 stone a while back,my biggest downfall was chocolate in the EVENING,BIG bars,still battle with choc even now,its damn hard,weightwatchers worked for me,please give it another go with a slimming club BEFORE surgery,i know when you feel desparate you will do ANYTHING but how proud you will feel when you accomplish it with your own work,not surgery,you're not alone,any time you need to talk to anyone i'm here so is everyone else,good luck!

[R0M41N5]

you are an addict if the doc told me i couldnt eat nuts because they would kill me i'd take his advice.but what do i know i used to be a skinny git with no appertite and a drink prob. i still drink but not nearly as much but eat loads more now im a healthy 12 stone thats because i know if i carried on the ways i was i would be seriously ill or brown bread by now. nothing is more importent than your kids-wife & you

[raysparx]

Why should we or anyone judge you ?, I really hope you can find the strength,to do it this time, as I said before you have taken the biggest step by admitting you have a problem, please keep us informed how you are doing, and you really will have to be strong,but wish you loads of luck and will power,do it and enjoy playing with the kids, Ray

[Kay]

imnh, None of us are judging you,Im so glad you opened up to us. I've tried many diets over the years but only SW had worked for me. I had to cut out all fatty foods as my cholestral levels were high and that gave me the boost I so badly needed. I had 6 stone to lose and I've lost 3 and boy does it feel good! I cant excercise as my back's bad thanks to a fall but just perservering with Sw has lost me that 3 stone. We're all with you here if you need us. Take care and good luck. Kay x

[Kay]

electricblue, I crave ice cream and chocs as well. I buy the Skinny Cow range. Ice cream lolly's and ice cream. The lolly's are only 3 syns and are mmmm. You can google "The Skinny Cow",its worth it. The tubs of their Mint choc chip and their cookie's n cream are ...oh Im drooling now. Kay.