How To Get My Fiance To Want To Do More With Me

[Pookiebear8401]

I feel like me and my fiance are not doing enough stuff together lately. I dont want us to slip to far apart and then not be able to fix anything. Any advice on how and what we can do to bring us closer together?

[douglas9401]

Buy a two berth tourer and join the caravan club.

[Old_Geezer]

Why not talk to each other about what you'd like to do together, and firm up some plans ?

[waterboatman]

Yes. You need to sit him down and talk to him. Explain what you want and listen to what he wants, you should agree somewhere in the middle.

[KARL]

Unless you think it entirely inappropriate, ask him to make you a promise (which you also make in return) to be honest enough to tell you if he is losing interest in the relationship because you don't want acrimony/pain and that it would be better to separate amicably than not, if indeed that is what one of you wants (only one of you needed for this because that is terminal).

[woofgang]

don't talk to us about this, talk to your fiance

[bednobs]

you can coerce people into doing things. you can't coerce them into wanting to do things

[CrapAtCryptics]

We accept that not all things we do will be of interest to each other so there is no point forcing it. As long as you share the important things that should be ok. If you try and push your interests you may lose out.