Addicted to flirting!!!

[Dan Glebitts]

I never used to be amazing with women and i put that down to infrequent contact and interaction with the opposite sex (eg single sex education) but in the last few months to a year, I have found that when i converse with a woman, it all comes naturally and i cant stop flirting.
I flirt and flirt and we end up going out....no matter how long i have known her for! I have discussed it with mates and they say i should cut it out a bit, I once had 12 women wanting to go out at the same time.
I dont want to be labelled as a womaniser and im not "dating" any of them properly, like BF GF and i dont know what to do or how to stop.....but before i go any further i would like to hear other peoples views because i know its just not right. I dont intentionally flirt, i just always seem to compliment women in a way that makes me seem attractive, i dont know what it is...it just sort of...happens.
Call me young and inexperienced but i would really be grateful for opinions (nasty and nice) and some good answers..... thanks in advance :-D

[The Sherman]

right maybe you can help me dan im 24 and i have no luck with wimen folk at all, i have absoluteley no confidence and do that classice freeze up thing whenever i see a nice girl i like. i hate it so much im not an uggo and people say like your really outgoing but when it comes them darn wimen folk i havent got a clue! any tips anyone???

[Dan Glebitts]

just talk to them!
talk about them, listen to what they have to say and dont barrage them with your incredible stories about YOU.

make a joke, on the spot jokes are best...not ones from a book.....if she says something, try and relate to it with a past experience of your own...but only tell a long story if you are good at tellin one.....and you should know by now if you are a good story teller, cos its a straight out put off by borin them with the details....
....be yourself (cheesey i know, but it works), depending on where you are different things can work...if you work with a few girls you like, get into their good books first. Help them with the photocopier if its not working, be nice, cheery and smile!
Also maybe dont try and go after her, let her come to you...a glance across a room, a smile, these things can be a turn on and your body language can make a big difference. If you "chat" her up, maybe go off for a bit and wait for her to come back to you, if she does, shes definetely interested if not, dont bother.
Dont try and grab attention all the time but dont hide in the corner either.

common sense plays a big part, (calling them "women folk" doesnt)

Just play it cool and remember, you're not out for a quick hump, you like this girl and you want her to like you!

I myself dont usually go and meet women, they seem to meet me...but thats just me i suppose....sorry i can be of any more help.... Im sure you have some female friends too, and that can help you along your way as well...

Good luck with it mate
Dan

[Pippa68]

Is it only me falling in love with Dan?

You got it, guy :o) xx

[The Sherman]

cheers dan i sort of know all that already still i just freeze whenever i see a girl even when she smiles at me i still cant do anything!!!
its quite funny when i think about it, and i know i should be able to change it but i can't!!