Suggested Distractions

[elpea]

Please can anyone recommend any distractions/diversions so I can get on with things today. My heart was broken last night.

[mycats]

Put on music that you love, REALLY loud (NOT soppy, sad songs) jump around the house dancing, cleaning whatever. Exercise, get a comedy DVD and junk food. Phone a friend and go to pub, stay on here and talk to us x x

[kazminx]

try shopping and buy something real sexy to make him jealous as hell and dont forget the shoes and handbag...go for a spray tan...all set!!!

[elpea]

super speedy response! I've got so much paperwork to do... then go to the office yet my brain is obsessed with intense feeling and I feel like I might burst. Wish I hadn't let myself get involved with this situation.

[elpea]

hey kazminx... good call. I'm sure I can pick something up in the lunchbreak, but not sure if I'm doing it to make him jealous - think I'll be staying out of his way for a while.

[claireyfairy]

Watch 'George of the Jungle', Brendan Fraiser all tanned and buff in a 'butt-flap' hmmmm......works every time!!!

[Rufio]

Pub may not be a good idea...we all know women are relatively likely to get emotional when theyre drinking! But yeah, read a book, line up a film marathon, read the singles ad's and remind yourself how lucky you are, or, my favourite, put on a film youve watched loads of times before with the subtitles on and the volume down, read a book and listen to music!
ps sorry to hear about last night, hope you get back to normal soon x

[mccfluff]

get the girls round for a night of ice cream and man bashing, lots of loud music maybe some films (comedy the brendan frasier idea is excellent btw), hope you feel better soon xx

[spk]

ditto to mcfluffs answer. Drown yerself in Haagen Dazs and girly movies. Treat yourself a bit, make yourself feel nice again. Best of luck x

[Peghead]

Ask one of your girlie friends to book a holiday with you - doesn't have to be right away, possibly in a few weeks or months - and then you have something to look forward to!

Plus you get to shop till you drop before and come back looking tanned, feeling relaxed and with a clear mind.

In the meantime maybe try writing a letter to the person who broke your heart (not with the intention of giving it to them!) just so you can get everything off your chest - I always find that helps. Then if the mood takes you, you can tear it to shreds afterwards!

Hope you feel better soon xx

[elpea]

the letter idea is a good one... think I'll try that. And yeah, I should look into a holiday, not done anything nice like that for ages, though all my girls are on holiday or away working right now, probably why I've reacted the way I have to last night. Boo!