What Would Be The Best Thing To Do As Don't Know.

[scottnathan]

hi people I've been on the run for 7mounths now for missing probation and for missing 2 court's one was set by the probation officer and the uver one was for martons ring them up told them to withdraw my arrested that what they done set me a appointment day missed that one been running sincerely since ok. probation officer breached me when i was ill not feeling very well told him this over the phone but he still left it as a breach also i show him prove of my appointment at jobcentre and he still breached me for that then i had a appointment Gosport council because we are going through an avocation but lucky that has been sorted now that how went down also he shouldn't of breached me in first place. juat for the records he shouldn't of breached me because i do in fact have proof of that as well so why did he breach me don't he like me i know he doesn't like my girl friend because he said i should get rid of her i sated can't get rid of the person you love but your 28 and she is 52 i was like so what nothing to do with you this from sam cherry don't like him what so ever didn't have long at probation not my fault had house issues thinking of my girlfriend she open to all infections and has kosmosendrom she need me she can't go homeless with that illness went to sam cherry appointment she would been on the street I'll all because of him that why I'm avoiding the police i can't get into trouble any more to old i have learn from my mistakes what should i do?

[Theland]

I would go to the police and take her with you.
They will sort it out.
You cannot run away forever.
They will not leave her homeless, or you.

[rowanwitch]

The adult thing is to stop running and go to the police station as Theland says. If she is 52 with medical problems she won't be made homeless. But she probably should get in touch with a doctor and possibly a social worker to help her get settled. Then she can provide a stable home for you to get your life sorted.
The first step towards that might be improving your education. You can't be daft to manage all that time on the run, although you were a bit stupid running in the first place. When this is sorted there are free courses at almost every local college.

Good luck

[Old_Geezer]

You can not sort life's issues unless you take a deep breath and decide to confront and tackle them. In your case you have to face the music, get the stress bit over with, then start afresh. You know this is true, you just need someone to convince you that it's the only way to get life back on track. Anything else just prolongs the mess you're in, along with the stress; it doesn't actually solve anything.

[New Judge]

"juat for the records he shouldn't of breached me because i do in fact have proof of that as well so why did he breach me don't he like me"

Liking you (or disliking you) is not part of his job. He breached you because under probation service rules, when you are absent from an appointment and there is any doubt whether or not you had good reason for being absent, breach proceedings are taken and it is up to the court to decide whether you had good reason or not.

You need to face these problems as running away from them is simply stupid.

[Old_Geezer]

We all do. And hope the replies will help others in the future with an identical problem.

[murraymints]

well..given this is all as you say..there can be only one outcome and it will not be good..hand yourself in and face up to it..