It is mutually beneficial for the club I used to belong to that they allow me to continue using it without being a member - it is only sensible to let me please myself. I can't understand why they are being so rude, insulting unprofessional and difficult, they must be peeved that I left the club. After all, they need me more than I need them - and, no, of course I won't pay the membership fee or follow their rules. Hey ho, my future is bright because everybody else admires me so and is dying to be my friend - and of course to my great advantage because I am so special.