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Hi I am not sure if this is the correct place to put this but I have a strange problem. My Mum died not that long ago and I was very upset but it is only now that I have found a really big problem. My Mum used to but my tampons every month on her trip to the supermarket and put them in the bathroom but now that she has gone my Dad does not think of buying any.I do not feel able to ask him to but them for obvious reasons but I need them.At the moment I have been using toilet paper but I feel uncomfortable and uneasy.What do you think I should do?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.write a little list and give it to your dad saying, "dad, i've run out of a few personal supplies, mum used to get them for me but could you get them for me next time you go shopping?"
then give him a list something like this -
deoderant,
spot cream
tampons
cotton wool
etc
i guarantee he won't be embarrassed and i guarantee that he already knows you have periods and use tampons (he has looked in the box, wouldn't you have?), he is just not thinking about it because of losing your mum - he has a lot on his mind. it is perfectly natural that this wouldn't have crossed his mind.
he would actually probably be a little upset if he knew how you were agonising and suffereing over this because you were too scared to tell him
or ask an auntie or someone to tell him
then give him a list something like this -
deoderant,
spot cream
tampons
cotton wool
etc
i guarantee he won't be embarrassed and i guarantee that he already knows you have periods and use tampons (he has looked in the box, wouldn't you have?), he is just not thinking about it because of losing your mum - he has a lot on his mind. it is perfectly natural that this wouldn't have crossed his mind.
he would actually probably be a little upset if he knew how you were agonising and suffereing over this because you were too scared to tell him
or ask an auntie or someone to tell him
Thanks for all your wonderful advice.I am afraid but I will have to tske Czechlesbians advice .I am a very shy person and I cannot even say the word period when talkng about history as it makes me blush!I will have to ba a coward on this and buy them myself and put them in my jewellery box.Thanks again for all your replies you were all so lovely I am definetly coming back here.I am not a young teenager by the way.I am 17.
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